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Remember when you thought you’d have life all figured out by the age of 30?

But now here you are, officially a 30-something and yet your life is far from sorted. Well, don’t worry, you’re not alone.

For most of us, our 30s are a time of change and uncertainty. Perhaps things haven’t worked out quite how you would have liked so far. But the good news is, there’s still plenty time to shape the life you want and you’re sure to learn a lot along the way.

I turned 40 last month which means somehow I made it through my 30s in one piece. Now, I’m still no life expert but as I reflect on the last ten years, I’m amazed at how much I’ve learnt.

Here are some of the lessons you’ll learn during your 30s.

1. You’ll learn friendships change
Your friendships will change a lot during your 30s. As people pair up, have kids, move house or change jobs, your friendships inevitably alter.

You may discover friends you have known for years don’t make the effort to keep in touch anymore. Or perhaps you no longer have anything in common with friends you’ve had since childhood.

It’s difficult to accept but there may be people who simply aren’t meant to be in your friendship circle anymore. But new friendships will take their place and the good news is, the friends you have at the end of your 30s will probably be friends for life.

2. You’ll learn to make big decisions
When you enter your 30s, you realize those big decisions you’ve been putting off can’t wait forever.

During my 30s I moved house twice, set up a business and had a baby. All demanded huge decisions that I’d been able to avoid during my 20s.

Decisions about your career, family, finances and relationships – you’ll face them all during your 30s. And no matter how old you get, making decisions is tough but with every big decision, your life changes; usually for the better.

3. You’ll learn about heartache
Divorce, fertility issues, bereavement, these are all things many people in their 30s have to face, often for the first time. The thing is, the journey through life isn’t meant to be straightforward and you can only really appreciate the highs, when you’ve also experienced the lows.

As Winston Churchill said: “If you’re going through hell, keep going”.

4. You’ll learn what’s really important
As you get older, your priorities change. The things that were important to you in your 20s such as making money or owning the latest gadgets will now seem less important.

Your 30s is a time to redefine your priorities; whether that’s traveling more, achieving a better work/life balance, or starting a family.

5. You’ll learn about compromise
Life is full of compromises and during your 30s you may find you have to compromise on big things such as taking a pay cut to get the job you really want, or moving city to be with the person you love.

Of course, it’s equally important to know when not to compromise. If you want kids but your partner doesn’t, it’s probably impossible to find a compromise. Instead, you may have to make the difficult decision to walk away from the relationship to get the life you really want.

6. You’ll learn to look after your body
Alcohol, sugar, late nights; they all take their toll. In your 20s you can enjoy your vices without inflicting too much long-term damage. But in your 30s, all those bad choices suddenly have a huge impact.

When you look in the mirror and see wrinkles, grey hairs and saggy skin for the first time, it’s a shock. And while you can’t reverse the ageing process (at least not without lots of cash and a great cosmetic surgeon), you can slow down the effects of ageing by making smart choices.

Now is the time to nurture your body to keep you healthy throughout your 30s and beyond.

7. You’ll learn to invest in the future
“Live for today” is the mantra of most 20-somethings. And this is perfect when you’ve got plenty time ahead to iron out your mistakes. But as you enter your 30s, you’ll realize although enjoying the moment is still important, you also need to plan for the future.

By investing in your finances, your health and your relationships you’ll form good habits that will make your future healthier and happier.

8. You’ll learn life is short
In your 20s you had the luxury of knowing that your whole life was still ahead of you. Meanwhile in your 30s, the sensation that time is hurtling along just keeps getting stronger.

You’ll treasure every second more and only go for things you really like or really needed.

9. You’ll learn about regret
Did you want to be a millionaire by the time you were 30? Travel the world? Win an Oscar? Goals you had in your 20s may no longer seem achievable and although it’s hard to let go of your dreams, with the wisdom you’ve gained, you can create new ones.

10. You’ll learn about children
Whether you already have kids, want kids, or definitely don’t want kids; there’s no escaping the fact that during your 30s everyone seems to be talking about children.

When you have absolutely no interest in kids, all the conversations about diapers and nurseries can become tiresome. But seeing your friends settle down and have kids can clarify how you feel about starting your own family.

You may find your thoughts about children change when you hit your 30s. Plenty of people (including me) change from thinking “definitely not”, to “definitely maybe” as they realize it’s a decision that can’t be put off forever.

11. You’ll learn to develop your own style
Knowing how to dress in your 30s isn’t easy. You’re too mature to wear teenage fashions but not ready to dress like your parents. Take the opportunity to develop your own style. It’s refreshing not to have to be a slave to fashion anymore.

12. You’ll learn to socialize differently
If your 20s were all about all-night parties and being seen in the hippest clubs; you may learn your tastes change in your 30s. Personally, I’d rather go for coffee than cocktails and much prefer watching a film with friends to hitting the town.

Being in your 30s gives you the freedom to do the things you really want to do, not what you think you should be doing.

13. You’ll learn not to sweat the small stuff
Remember when you were worried about everything? What to wear, how to cut your hair, whether your colleagues thought you were a dork for staying in on Saturday night? Well, great news; in your 30s you’ll learn not to care about the little things.

It’s painful to realize how much time you wasted overthinking things but the worries that caused you sleepless nights in your 20s simply won’t matter anymore. And when you learn not to sweat the small stuff, you’ll have more energy to focus on more important things.

14. You’ll learn to manage your money
If you haven’t already got your finances in check, you’ll learn to during your 30s. No doubt you’ll make some mistakes along the way but you’ll quickly become an expert.

Whether you’re investing in business, property or parenthood; now is the time to focus on money matters and financial planning.

15. You’ll learn to value your family
During our late teens and 20s many people grow apart from their parents and siblings as they fly the nest and embrace freedom. But during our 30s, many rediscover the importance of family.

Having kids of your own can bring you closer to your parents. And as your friendships change, it’s comforting to have the stability of family relationships.

16. You’ll learn to stand up for yourself
Whether it’s asking for a pay rise, or standing up to bullies at work, once you’re in your 30s, you’ll learn how to be assertive when it counts. Confidence comes with age so don’t be afraid to ask for what you want; you just might get it.

17. You’ll learn to love yourself
Your 20s can be a difficult time when you’re constantly comparing yourself to others and worrying “am I good enough?”. Well, the good news is your insecurities lessen during your 30s.

You might not have life completely figured out yet but you’ll definitely care less about what others think and learn to love yourself a whole lot more.

、还记得当你30岁的时候,你的生活已经全部解决了吗?

 
但现在你在这里,正式30点,但你的生活远远没有排序。好吧,别担心,你并不孤单。
 
对我们大多数人来说,30年代是一个变化和不确定的时期。也许事情还没有完全解决,到目前为止你还不会喜欢。但好消息是,仍然有足够的时间来塑造你想要的生活,你一定会在这条路上学到很多东西。
 
上个月我40岁了,这意味着我一段时间过了30多岁。现在,我仍然不是生活专家,但当我回想过去的十年,我惊讶于我学到了多少东西。
 
以下是你30多岁学到的一些经验教训。
 
1。你会学会友谊的改变
在30多岁时,你的友谊会发生很大的变化。当人们成双成对、生孩子、搬家或换工作时,你的友谊不可避免地会改变。
 
你会发现你认识多年的朋友不再努力保持联系了。也许你和你儿时的朋友不再有共同之处了。
 
很难接受,但可能有些人根本就不想在你的友谊圈里了。但是新的友谊将取而代之,好消息是,你30多岁的朋友可能会成为终生的朋友。
 
2。你会学会做出重大决定
当你进入30岁的时候,你意识到你一直在拖延的那些重大决定不能永远等待。
 
30多岁的时候,我搬了两次家,办了一个生意,生了一个孩子。所有人都要求我在20多岁时能够避免的重大决定。
 
关于你的事业、家庭、财务和人际关系的决定——你会在30多岁的时候面对这些。不管你年龄多大,做决定都很难,但是每一个重大决定,你的生活都会改变,通常是为了更好。
 
三.你会了解心痛的
离婚,生育问题,丧亲之痛,这些都是30多岁的人经常要面对的事情,通常是第一次。问题是,人生之旅并不是一帆风顺的,只有当你经历低谷时,你才能真正体会到高潮。
 
正如温斯顿邱吉尔所说:“如果你正在经历地狱,继续前进”。
 
4。你会学到什么才是真正重要的。
随着年龄的增长,你的优先事项会改变。在你20多岁时对你来说很重要的事情,比如赚钱或者拥有最新的小玩意,现在看起来不那么重要了。
 
你的30岁是重新定义你的优先顺序的时候了,这是否是为了更好的工作和生活平衡,或者开始一个家庭。
 
5。你会了解妥协的
生活中充满了妥协,在30多岁的时候,你可能会发现你不得不在大事情上妥协,比如减薪,得到你真正想要的工作,或者搬到城市去和你爱的人在一起。
 
当然,知道什么时候不妥协也是同样重要的。如果你想要孩子,但你的伴侣不想,那很可能找不到妥协。相反,你可能不得不做出艰难的决定,离开这段关系,过上你真正想要的生活。
 
6。你将学会照顾你的身体。
酒精,糖,深夜,他们都要付出代价。在20多岁的时候,你可以享受你的恶习而不会造成太多的长期伤害。但在30多岁时,所有这些糟糕的选择突然产生巨大的影响。
 
当你在镜子里看到的皱纹,灰白的头发和皮肤松弛的第一时间,这是一个冲击。虽然你不能逆转衰老过程(至少不是没有很多现金和一个伟大的整容外科医生),你可以通过做出明智的选择来减缓衰老的影响。
 
现在是时候培养你的身体,让你在30多岁的时候保持健康。
 
7。你将学会投资于未来。
“为今天而活”是大多数20岁孩子的口头禅。这是完美的,当你有足够的时间来消除你的错误。但是当你进入30岁的时候,你会意识到虽然享受这个时刻仍然很重要,但是你也需要为未来做计划。
 
通过投资于你的财务、健康和人际关系,你将养成良好的习惯,使你的未来更健康、更快乐。
 
8。你会知道生命是短暂的
在你20多岁的时候,你有幸知道你的整个生活还在你的前面。同时在你30,感觉时间疾驰正在变得越来越强。
 
你会更加珍惜每一秒,只会得到你真正喜欢或真正需要的东西。
 
9。你会知道后悔的。
你30岁的时候想成为百万富翁吗?周游世界?赢得奥斯卡奖?你20多岁时的目标可能不再是可以实现的,虽然你很难放弃梦想,但你已经获得了智慧,你可以创造新的梦想。
 
10。你会了解孩子的。
无论你是否已经有了孩子,想要孩子,或者绝对不想要孩子;

 

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