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  You don't have to be Gandhi or Mother Theresa to think wisely. We can all tap in to that place within ourselves if we try. Being wise can save us a lot of heartache and negativity in our lives. And who wouldn't want that? Here are 10 ways you can think like a wise person:
 
  你不必像甘地和德兰修女那样做事。要是愿意一试,我们都可以做到那种地步。在生活中合理运用可以避免做出些令自己后悔的事、避免产生消极情绪。有谁不想变得聪明?
 
  1. Think before you speak.话要想着说
   Like you haven't heard that one before! I'm sure most of our parents told us that when we were children. It's something you probably know you should do, but may find difficult. One of the principles of communication is that "Once you say it, you can't take it back." Sure, you can try. But whether the other person will believe you is another story. So before you open your mouth to say something, make sure it's something you would be proud to post everywhere on social media. If it's something you might regret later, then maybe it's better if you kept it to yourself.
  像是从没听说过似的!我敢说在我们都还是孩子的年代就听父母就说过。这就是你明知道该怎么做却难以做到的事。交流 有一个原则“一旦把话说出口就不能收回。”当然,你大可一试,但是对方是否会相信你的另一个故事呢。因此,在开口说话前,确信你所说的话合适到足以禁得起 放到社会媒体上检验的地步。说出的话要是过一会儿就后悔,那最好还是不要说。
 
  2. Realize there is never a 'right time.'明白根本就没有一个“对的时间”
   "When I get a better job," or, "When I graduate," or, "When the kids are grown." These are all common statements that are probably uttered by millions of people every day. But you will always be able to rationalize why it's not the 'right time.' There is no time like the present. So, the best time to do anything is now. Take that first step toward your goal. Waiting will only make you older, not wiser.
  “等我找 到一份更好的工作的时候”,“等我毕业后”,“等到孩子长大的时候”。每天都会听到无数的人说这些话。但是你总能明白为什么这些话说的“不是时候”。没有 哪一刻能比现在更好。因此,现在就是最好的时间。向你的目标迈出第一步,等待只会让你的年龄增加,不会让你变得更聪明。
 
  3. Balance self-interest with the collective good.处理好个人利益和集体利益的关系
   In relationships, there should be a balance between "self" and "other." I view it as a continuum. At one end of the spectrum you have the very selfish people. At the other end you have the selfless people. And most of us are somewhere in between. Yes, you should care about your own needs. But you should also care about other people's needs too. It's a balancing act that can be achieved if you try hard enough.
  在社会生活中,势 必要处理好“个人”和“他人”的关系。我把他们视作一体。于私,是自私自利。于公,是大公无私。但是,许多人都是站在两者之间的某个点上。是的,你应该顾 及到自己的需要,但是你也应该考虑到他人的需求。只要足够用心,在这两者之间你是可以找到一个平衡点的。
 
  4. Put things in perspective before you jump to conclusions.在正确的看待一件事之前,不要妄下结论
    Emotions always run high when people are upset. While it's natural to do that, problems can occur when you engage in conflict with another person before you calm down. As I said in point 1, you need to think before you speak. But if you're too caught up in your anger, you're not going to think clearly. So take some time to calm down, put everything into perspective, and then review the facts not assumptions when you can think more logically.
  当人们感到不安时,情绪波动会比较大。当你别人闹了矛盾,不淡定是很正常的,但是不淡定时最容 易出问题。正如我在第一点是提到的那样,那时你就得先想好说什么。但是如果你不能好好的控制你的怒气,你也没法保持头脑清醒。所以还是花点时间来平复自 己,纵观事情的总体情况,在你能正常思考时在回顾这个事件而不是回想你的假设。
 
  5. Don't blindly accept the status quo.不要盲目接受现状
   Just because everyone does something doesn't mean you have to. I'm sure you've all heard of the "bandwagon" effect. It's the phenomenon that occurs when people act like lemmings and blindly follow the crowd. Instead, if you want to think like a wise person, step back from the crowd and observe. Askwhy they are doing this. And ask yourself if you truly want to do it – or even if it's advisable to do so. Many times it's not.
  每个人都在做的事并不意味着你必须要做。我知道你肯定听说过“随大流”。即是:人们像旅鼠一样,盲目的跟随着大多人的做 法。如果你想做个生活中的智者,不要随大流,也要善于观察。问问他们为什么要做这些。问问你自己是否真的想这样做——这样是不是一种明智的做法。通常答案 都是否定的。

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