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英语美文爱情就像四季花园

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A relationship is like a garden, if it is to strive it must be watered regularly, special care must be given; take into account the seasons as well as any unpredictable weather. New seeds must be sown and weeds must be pulled. Similarly, to keep the magic of love alive, we must understand its seasons and nurture love’s special needs.

The springtime of love

Falling in love is like springtime. We feel as though we will be happy forever. We can’t image not loving a partner. It is a time of innocence. Love seems eternal. It is a magic time when everything seems perfect and works effortlessly. Our partner seems to be the perfect fit. We effortless dance together in harmony and rejoice our good fortune.

The summer of love

Throughout the summer of love, we realize our partner is not as perfect as we thought. And we have to work on our relationship, not only is our partner from other planet, but e or she is also a human who makes mistakes and flawed in certain ways. Frustration and disappointment arise. Weeds need to be uprooted and plant need extra watering under the hot sun. It is no longer easy to give love and get the love we need. We discover that we are not always happy, and we do not always feel loving. It is not our picture of love. Many couples at this point become disillusioned. They do not want to work on a relationship. They unrealistically expect it to be spring all the time. They blame their partners and give up. They do not realize that love is not always easy; sometimes requires hard work under a hot sun. In the summer season of love, we need to nurture our partner’ needs, as well as ask for and get the love we need. It doesn’t happen automatically.

The autumn of love

As result of tending the garden during the summer, we get to harvest results of our hard work. Fall has come. It is a golden time--- rich and fulfilling. We experience a more mature love that accepts and understands our partner’s imperfections as well as our own. It is a time of thanksgiving and sharing. Having worked hard during the summer, we can relax and enjoy the love we have created.

The winter of love

Then weather changes again, and winter comes. During the cold barren months of winter, all of our nature pulls back within itself. It is a time of rest, refection, and renewal. It is a time and relationships we experience only unresolved pain or our shadow self. It is when our lid comes off and our painful feeling emerge. It is a time of solitary growth when who need to look more to ourselves than to our partners for love and fulfillment. It is a time of healing, This is the time when men hibernate in their caves and women sink to the bottom of their wells.

After loving and healing ourselves through the dark winter of love, then spring inevitably returns. Once again, we are blessed with the feeling of hope, love and an abundance of possibilities. Based on our inner healing and soul searching of our winter journey, we are then able to open our hearts, and feel springtime of love.

一段感情就像一座花园,如果要奋斗,一定要经常浇水,一定要特别注意,要考虑到季节以及任何不可预知的天气。必须播种新种子,必须拔杂草。同样,为了保持爱情的魔力,我们必须了解它的季节,培养爱的特殊需要。
 
爱情的春天
 
坠入爱河就像春天。我们觉得我们将永远幸福。我们无法想象不爱伴侣。这是一个纯真的时代。爱似乎永恒。这是一个神奇的时刻,当一切看起来完美,毫不费力地工作。我们的搭档看起来很合适。我们毫不费力地在和谐中共舞,欢庆我们的好运。
 
爱情的夏天
 
在整个爱的夏天,我们意识到我们的伴侣并不像我们想象的那么完美。我们必须致力于我们的关系,不仅是我们的伙伴来自其他星球,而且E或她也是一个在某些方面犯错误和有缺陷的人。挫折和失望产生。杂草需要连根拔起,植物在烈日下需要额外浇水。爱和得到我们所需要的爱已不再容易。我们发现我们并不总是快乐的,我们并不总是感觉到爱。这不是我们爱情的画面。许多夫妇在这一点上醒悟了。他们不想在关系上工作。他们不切实际的期待永远都是春天的时候。他们责怪他们的伙伴,放弃了。他们没有意识到爱并不总是容易的,有时需要在烈日下辛勤工作。在爱情的夏天,我们需要培养伴侣的需要,也需要得到我们所需要的爱。它不会自动发生。
 
爱情的秋天
 
由于在夏天照料花园,我们得到了辛勤劳动的成果。秋天来了。这是一个黄金时刻——丰富而充实。我们体验到一种更成熟的爱,它接受并理解我们伴侣的缺点和我们自己的缺点。这是一个感恩和分享的时刻。在夏天努力工作后,我们可以放松并享受我们创造的爱。
 
爱的冬天
 
然后天气又变了,冬天来了。在寒冷而贫瘠的冬天,我们所有的自然都会从里面收回。这是一个休息的时间,思考,和更新。这是一段时间和关系,我们经历的只是无法解决的痛苦或阴影的自我。这是当我们的盖子脱落,我们的痛苦的感觉出现。这是一个孤独成长的时代,当我们为了爱和满足,需要更多的关注自己,而不是伴侣。这是一个愈合的时期,这是男人在洞穴中冬眠的时候,女人沉入他们的威尔斯的底部。
 
在爱的黑暗的冬天里爱和治愈自己之后,春天必然会回来。再一次,我们满怀希望、爱和丰富的可能性。基于我们对冬天旅程的内在疗愈和心灵探索,我们就能打开我们的心灵,感受爱的春天。
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