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一朵玫瑰=一个月的房租

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A man thinks he scores high with a woman when he does something very big for her, like buying her a new car or taking her on vacation. He assumes he scores less when he does something small, like opening the car door, buying her a flower or giving her a hug. Based on this kind of score keeping, he believes he will fulfill her best by focusing his time, energy and attention into doing something large for her. This formula, however, doesn't work because women keep a score differently. When a woman keeps a score, no matter how big or small a gift of love is, it scores one point; each gift has an equal value; its size doesn't matter; it gets the point. A man, however, thinks he scores one point for a small gift and thirty points for a big gift since he doesn't understand a woman keeps a score differently. He naturally focuses his energy into one or two big gifts. Man does realize that to a woman the little gift is just as important as the big things. In the other word, to a woman, a single rose gets as many points as paying the rents on time. Without understanding this basic difference in score keeping, man and woman are continually frustrated and disappointed in their relationships.

一个男人认为当他为她做了一件大事时,他和一个女人得分很高,比如给她买一辆新车或者带她去度假。他假设自己做了一些小事,比如打开车门,给她买一朵花,或者给她一个拥抱,这样他就会得到更少的分数。基于这样的得分记录,他相信他会通过集中时间、精力和注意力为她做些大事来实现自己的最佳状态。然而,这个公式不起作用,因为女人得分不同。当一个女人保留一个分数时,不管爱的礼物有多大或多小,它都会得到一分;每件礼物都有同样的价值;它的大小无关紧要;它抓住了要点。然而,一个男人认为他为一个小礼物得了一分,一个大礼物得了三十分,因为他不理解女人的得分不同。他很自然地把精力集中在一两个大礼物上。男人确实意识到,对女人来说,小礼物和大礼物一样重要。换言之,对一个女人来说,一朵玫瑰只要按时付房租就可以得到那么多的分数。如果不了解分数保持的基本区别,男人和女人在关系中总是感到沮丧和失望。
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