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任何一次失败的经历都是人生的教训

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任何一次失败的经历都是人生的教训

人类的成长是一个经过试验、试验和错误最终导致智慧的过程。
 
每一次你选择相信自己,采取行动,你绝不会还是这个情况会如何。
 
有时你胜利了,有时你会醒悟。
 
然而,失败的实验并不比那些最终证明成功的实验更有价值;事实上,你通常从你所感知到的“失败”中学到的东西比你所认为的“成功”还要多。
 
如果你做了你认为是错误的事情,或者辜负了你自己的期望,你很可能会在你的本质和你所谓的错误行为者之间建立一道屏障。
 
然而,将过去的行为视为错误意味着内疚和责备,在你责备时不可能学到任何意义。
 
因此,当你严厉地批评自己时,宽恕是必要的。宽恕是消除情感债务的行为。宽恕有四种。
 
第一个是初学者原谅自己。
 
第二种宽恕是对他人的初学者宽恕。
 
第三种宽恕是对自己的超前宽恕。这是严重的违法行为,那些你深感耻辱的时候,你soimething违背自己的价值观和道德观,你创造你的标准和你的实际行为之间的鸿沟。
 
在这种情况下,你需要努力去原谅自己的过失,你叫关闭这道裂缝,重新找回真正的自我。
 
这并不意味着你应该原谅yourselfor不会感到遗憾或悔恨;但沉溺于这些感觉很长一段时间是不健康的,而且过分的自我惩罚只会为你和你的伦理之间的差距。
 
最后可能也是最困难的一件事是另一个人的高级宽恕。
 
在我们生命中的某个时刻,你可能受到别人的严重伤害或伤害,以至于原谅似乎是不可能的。
 
然而,怀有怨恨和复仇幻想只会让你陷入受害者的困境。在这种情况下,你应该强迫自己看到更大的图景,这样你就能把焦点从愤怒和怨恨中转移出来。
 
只有通过宽恕,你才能消除错误,清除记忆。当你最终能够释放出这种情况时,你可能会把它看作是你成长中必不可少的一部分。

Human growth is a process of experimentation, trial, and error ultimately leading to wisdom.

Each time you choose to trust yourself and take action, you can never quite be certaion how the situation will turn out.

sometimes you are victorious, and sometimes you become disillusioned.

The failed experiments, however, are no less valuable than the experiments that ultimately prove successful; in fact, you usually learn more from your perceived "failures" than you do from your perceived "success".

If you have made what you perceive to be a mistake or failed to live up to your own expectations, you will most likely put up a barrier between your essence and the part of you that is the alleged wrong-doer.

However, perceiving past actions as mistakes implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in blaming.

Therefore, forgiveness is required when you are harshly judging yourself. Forgiveness is the act of erasing an emotional debt. There are four kinds of forgiveness.

The first is beginner forgiveness for yourself.

The second of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another.

The third kind of forgiveness is advanced forgiveness of yourself. This is for serious transgressions, the ones you carry with deep shame when you do soimething that violates your own values and ethics, you create a chasm between your standards and your actual behavior.

In such a case, you need to work very hard at forgiving youeself for these deeds so that you call close this chasm and realign with the best part of yourself.

This does not mean that you should rush to forgive yourselfor not feel regret or remorse; but wallowing in these feelings for a protracted period of time is not healthy, and punishing yourself excessively will only creats a bigger gap between you and your ethics.

The last and perhaps most difficult one is the advanced forgiveness of another.

At some time of our life, you may have been severely wronged or hurt by another person to such a degree that forgiveness seems impossible.

However, harboring resentment and revenge fantasies only keeps you trapped in victim hood. Under such a circumstance, you should force yourself to see the bigger picture, by so doing, you will be able to shift the focus away from the anger and resentment.

It is only through forgiveness that you can erase wrongdoing and clean the memory. when you can finally release the situation, you may come to see it as a necessary part of your growth.


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