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生命就好像是一块小小的甜饼

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我的一个病人,一个成功的商人,告诉我,在他的癌症之前,他会变得沮丧,除非事情发展到某种程度。幸福是“吃饼干”,如果你有饼干,一切都很好。
 
如果你没有饼干,生活就不值一文。不幸的是,饼干一直在变化。
 
有些时候是金钱,有时是权力,有时是性。在其他时候,它是新车,最大的合同,最有声望的地址。
 
一年半,他被诊断出患有前列腺癌的他坐在摇头苦笑之后。”就像我小时候不再学习如何生活一样。
 
当我给我儿子一块饼干时,他很高兴。如果我把饼干拿走,或者它坏了,他就不高兴了。
 
但他是两个半,我四十三岁。我花了这么长时间才明白,这饼干永远不会让我高兴很久。
 
一旦你有了饼干,它就开始崩溃,或者你开始担心它会崩溃,或者是有人试图把它从你身边拿走。
 
你知道,你必须放弃很多东西来照顾饼干,防止它破碎,确保没有人把它从你身边拿走。
 
你可能连吃的机会都没有,因为你太忙了,只是不想失去它。
 
“吃饼干不是生活的意义。”病人笑着说癌症改变了他。
 
他第一次感到高兴。不管他的生意做得好与否,不管他在高尔夫球上是赢还是输。
 
两年前,癌症问我,“好的,什么是重要的?”什么才是真正重要的?嗯,生活很重要。
 
生活。生活,你可以拥有它,生活和饼干,没有饼干的生活。幸福与饼干无关,它与活着有关。以前,是谁创造了时间?”他若有所思地停顿了一下。该死,我猜生活就是饼干。


One of my patients, a successful businessman, tells me that before his cancer he would become depressed unless things went a certain way. Happiness was "having the cookie." If you had the cookie, things were good.

If you didn't have the cookie, life wasn't worth a damn. Unfortunately, the cookie kept changing.



Some of the time it was money, sometimes power, sometimes sex. At other times, it was the new car, the biggest contract, the most prestigious address.

A year and a half after his diagnosis of prostate cancer he sits shaking his head ruefully. "It's like I stopped learning how to live after I was a kid.

When I give my son a cookie, he is happy. If I take the cookie away or it breaks, he is unhappy.

But he is two and a half and I am forty-three. It's taken me this long to understand that the cookie will never make me happy for long.

The minute you have the cookie it starts to crumble or you start to worry about it crumbling or about someone trying to take it away from you.

You know, you have to give up a lot of things to take care of the cookie, to keep it from crumbling and be sure that no one takes it away from you.

You may not even get a chance to eat it because you are so busy just trying not to lose it.

Having the cookie is not what life is about." My patient laughs and says cancer has changed him.

For the first time he is happy. No matter if his business is doing well or not, no matter if he wins or loses at golf. "

Two years ago, cancer asked me, 'Okay, what's important? What is really important?' Well, life is important.

Life. Life any way you can have it, life with the cookie, life without the cookie. Happiness does not have anything to do with the cookie; it has to do with being alive. Before, who made the time?" He pauses thoughtfully. "Damn, I guess life is the cookie."


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