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生活英语:面对众多决策时我们要认真审查自己

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面对众多决策时我们要认真审查自己

英国石油公司证实,托尼·海沃德将于10月1日辞职,该公司试图让公众和投资者放心,它正在为漏油事件负责,并从这次重大灾难中吸取教训。





“由于这次事故,英国石油公司将发生变化,”英国石油公司董事长卡尔-亨利克·斯万伯格告诉投资者。“我们正在认真审视我们自己、我们做什么以及如何去做。”我们所学到的将对我们的工作方式、战略和治理产生影响。”




无论您对漏油事件有何个人看法,请注意,我写此信不是为了捍卫或攻击英国石油公司。我只是提供这次时事作为说明接受责任是什么样子以及为什么这样做对你最有利的一种方式。




不管我们谈论的是像海湾漏油这样的国家灾难,还是像发脾气这样的个人失误,你承担责任的过程都是一样的。





对自己的行为和决定承担责任将有助于你赢得他人的信任、尊重和信心,以及改善你的自我形象。




可悲的是,对自己的决定和行动承担全部责任越来越少见。好消息是那些这样做的人将会从人群中脱颖而出。




这是谁的过错?





我们如何处理对决策和错误的责任直接反映了我们的性格。当我们把责任推卸给某人或某事而不是对自己的行为或决定负责时,认为我们在愚弄任何人是错误的。人们比那更聪明。他们可以知道我们什么时候在逃避责任,他们觉得这非常令人厌恶。



责备别人



在生命的早期,很容易看出谁是对的,谁不是。想想那个总是把球队的失利归咎于教练、裁判和其他球员的小联盟球员。或者年轻的专业人士每次表现不佳时都坚持认为那是因为她无法控制的事情。





承担责任



在频谱的另一端,您可能还亲眼目睹或听到了积极的一面。就像一群男孩向邻居承认他们打破了他的窗户,而不是逃跑。或者丈夫在妻子和孩子面前卑躬屈膝,在和妻子和孩子相处过不必要的短暂之后向他们道歉。





一般来说,对自己的行为负责的人会获得更大的尊重和影响。相比之下,那些推卸责任或找借口的人最终会失去别人的信任和信心。




除了反映性格外,接受责任也是领导中最关键的因素之一。没有人愿意跟随那些试图推卸责任的领导人,或者那些对自己的错误或判断错误不负责任的领导人。

BP confirmed that Tony Hayward will step down on Oct. 1 as the company seeks to reassure both the public and investors that it is taking responsibility for the spill and is learning lessons from this major disaster.
 
 
 
“BP will change as a result of this accident,” BP Chairman Carl-Henric Svanberg told investors.” We are taking a hard look at ourselves, what we do and how we do it. What we learn will have implications for our ways of working, our strategy, and our governance.”
 
 
Whatever your personal views are about the oil spill, please know that I’m not writing to defend or attack BP. I’m simply offering this current event as a way to illustrate what accepting responsibility looks like and why it’s in your best interest to do so.
 
 
It doesn’t matter whether we’re talking about a national disaster like the Gulf oil spill or a personal blunder like losing your temper; the process of accepting responsibility for your action is the same.
 
 
 
Accepting responsibility for your actions and decisions will help you earn the trust, respect, and confidence of others as well as improve your self-image.
 
 
Sadly, accepting full responsibility for one’s decisions and actions is becoming a rarity. The good news is that those who do will stand out from the crowd.
 
 
Whose Fault Is It?
 
 
 
How we handle responsibility for our decisions as well as our mistakes is a direct reflection on our character. It’s wrong to think that we’re fooling anyone when we project blame onto someone or something else instead of a being accountable for our actions or decisions. People are smarter than that. They can tell when we’re shirking our responsibilities, and they find it extremely distasteful.
 
Blaming Others
 
It’s easy to see early on in life who has it right and who hasn’t. Consider the Little League player who always blames the team’s loss on the coaches, the umpires, and the other players. Or how the young professional with a poor performance record insists every time that it’s because of something beyond her control.
 
 
 
Accepting Responsibility
 
At the other end of the spectrum, you’ve probably also witnessed or heard about the positive side. Like a group of boys confessing to the neighbor that they broke his window rather than running away. Or the husband who humbles himself before his wife and children and apologizes after having been unnecessarily short with them.
 
 
 
Universally, people who accept responsibility for their actions command greater respect and influence. By contrast, those who pass the buck or make excuses eventually lose the trust and confidence of others.
 
 
In addition to reflecting character, accepting responsibility is one of the most critical factors in leadership. No one wants to follow leaders who attempt to pass the buck or who don’t accept responsibility for their mistakes or errors in judgment.
 
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