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不要随便论断评论他人

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 我想起了一个小故事,一个关于挑苹果的故事。一位妈妈为了考验儿子,将一大一小的苹果放到儿子面前,对他说:你挑一个。儿子迅速拿起苹果,一个各咬一口。妈妈一看,一股怒火“噌”地往上升,她刚想好好教育儿子,儿子却开口了:“妈妈,我尝了一下,这个甜一点,所以这个给你。”儿子向她举起了那个甜一点的苹果。她的心不仅“嗖”地消失了怒火,而且涌上了一份感动和一种自责,她自以为的儿子的自私,却是儿子对她的爱的表达。幸好她批评的话语没有讲出来,要不多委屈儿子,多伤儿子的心。

  用自己的观点去随意评判别人的行为,确确实实是一种伤害。人与人不同,想法更是千差万异,所以不要用自己的认知来看待事情,轻率做出判断。

  曾经,有一艘游轮遭遇了海难,船上有一对夫妻好不容易来到救生艇前,可艇上只剩一个位子,这时男人把女人推向身后,独自爬上了救生艇。女人在渐沉的游轮上,向男人喊了一句:“照顾好我们的孩子!”然后,女人随着轮船沉入海低,而男人得救了。他回到家乡,独自带大女儿,当然,他也承受了独自逃生的非议。多年后,男人病故,女儿整理遗物时,发现了父亲的日记。他在日记中写道:“我多想和你一起沉入海底,可我不能。为了女儿,我只能让你一个人长眠在深深的海底……”原来,父亲和母亲乘坐游轮时,母亲已患了绝症。关键时刻,父亲冲向那唯一的生机,只为了家里的女儿。

  世间的善与恶,对与错,有时错综复杂,很难清晰划开界线,所以不要用已知的自以为是的观点去做一切的判断,凡事多一些沟通,多一些理解,多一些包容,并尽量少一些评判,让评判最大可能全面一些。
 

I think of a little story, a story about picking apples. A mother to test his son, put a big apple and a small apple in front of his son, said to him: you choose one. The son quickly picked up the apple and each took one bite. Mom looked at it and a rage went up. She was just trying to educate her son, but the son said, "Mom, I tasted this sweet, so this is for you." The son raised the sweet apple to her. Her heart not only "whispered" away the anger, but also surged with a touch and a kind of self-reproach, her self-confident son's selfishness, but his love for her expression. Fortunately, her words of criticism did not come out.
 
 
 
To judge others' behavior with their own opinions is a kind of injury. People are different, and ideas are even more different, so don't look at things with your own perception, judging rashly.
 
 
 
Once, a cruise ship suffered a shipwreck, a couple on the boat had difficulty to come to the lifeboat, but there was only one seat left on the boat, when the man pushed the woman behind, climbed the lifeboat alone. On the sinking ship, the woman shouted to the man, "take care of our children!" Then the woman sank into the sea as the ship went down, and the man was saved. He returned to his hometown and brought his eldest daughter alone. Of course, he also took the blame for escaping alone. Many years later, when a man died, his daughter found his father's diary when he was sorting out his belongings. He wrote in his diary: "I want to sink into the sea with you, but I can't. For the sake of my daughter, I can only let you sleep alone in the deep sea. " It turned out that when father and mother took a cruise ship, the mother had already suffered from terminal illness. At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only life, only for the daughter of the family.
 
 
 
The world of good and evil, right and wrong, sometimes complex, it is difficult to draw a clear line, so do not use the known self-righteous point of view to do everything judgement, everything more communication, more understanding, more inclusive, and as far as possible, less judgment, so that the greatest possible comprehensive judgment.
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