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结婚前要问的问题

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Questions To Ask Before Marriage结婚前要问的问题

结婚是一个巨大的决定。除了常见的婚礼策划失误之外,你还需要考虑未来更重要的方面。在选择之前,你想用你所能找到的所有知识武装自己,所以在这一天之前,有几件事要问。
 
1。如果我们都失业了,我们会有什么财政资源?
这个问题很好,因为它能照亮你伴侣的财务状况。在更坏的情况下跳到这个问题的基础上,立即强调财务能力的重要性。
 
虽然想象一个没有收入的世界是件可怕的事,但考虑到你目前的理财态度,知道什么样的计划可能是好的。
 
2。如果我成为全职专业人士,你能成为一个全职的家长吗?
如果这已经是你的处境,那么扭转角色。知道你的伴侣当前的观点是关于角色反转的可能性是很好的。这可以让你深入了解你的伴侣关于抚养孩子和专业目标的态度。
 
对这个问题没有正确的答案,但对双方都知道对方的立场是很重要的。
 
三.你上一次去医院是什么时候?你为什么在那里?
最后一次住院检查可以开始谈论病史。它也可以提供一些关于就诊的频率和必要性的见解。而不是要求所有相关的医学事实,反映最近的访问允许更自然的交谈发生。
 
4。当你达到你当前的目标,你能看到自己发展新的梦想吗?
爱上一个充满激情的人是很好的。在成功的生活中设定目标、追求梦想和创造新梦想是非常重要的。虽然没有人能预见到这种情况的细节,但重要的是要登记,看看是否有替代梦想的火花仍然存在。
 
5。你能想象自己参与的最疯狂的性经验是什么?
这个问题限制了你伴侣的性幻想。为了探索你们两人讨论这个非常私密的话题是多么的舒服,探索这个领域是很有用的。
 
如果你不能和你的终身伴侣讨论性需求和欲望,你很可能会长期奋斗。结婚前,很高兴看到你们俩是多么的开放。
 
6。如果你只能满足一种精神需要,那会是什么?
了解伴侣的精神需求是很有价值的。精神也不需要在教堂里得到满足。与玩游戏一样平常的东西对人们来说有精神上的意义。
 
要认识到什么对自己的精神方面更重要并不总是那么容易,所以在结婚前开始谈论这件事是至关重要的。
 
7。我的朋友哪一个最值得尊敬,为什么?
朋友是我们生活中重要的一部分。这个问题的重点是我们的伴侣对朋友的态度,以及这些关系中的任何一个是否有尊重的基础。虽然我们可能并不总是与伴侣的朋友相处,但保持一定程度的尊重是很重要的。
 
如果你的伴侣不能列出你所有的朋友,不要让它打扰你太多。你只是在登记,看看你的伴侣是否能回忆起你的朋友是否被他或她合理地接受。
 
8。你认为我们的父母将来会给我们带来什么样的关系?
父母对我们有特殊的权力。如果一个父母不喜欢你的伴侣,那会很复杂。它可以被管理,但是重要的是能够公开地讨论它。
 
如果你的家庭最终联合起来并发生冲突,考虑你可能面临什么样的挑战并没有什么问题。如果可能的话,你也可以用这个问题来为未来的挑战制定可能的解决方案。
 
9。在日常生活中,为了让自己感到舒适,你必须要做的事情是什么?
这个问题的目的是帮助你的伴侣评估哪些事情对他们的幸福至关重要。我们每个人都有一些事情需要让自己感觉良好。
 
这些是合作伙伴必须学会尊重和工作的关键项目。如果你的伴侣真的需要每天花一小时阅读,只是激怒你,那么你需要澄清的是,这是你所爱的人需要的东西。为了便于交流,确定这些项目是很重要的。
 
10。你搬家有多容易?
有些人认为搬家是一个可怕的挑战。其他人可以在未知中看到机会的火花。虽然在可预见的将来你可能没有任何行动,但最好还是登记一下,看看将来是否真的有可能搬家。
 
如果它完全不在桌面上,你将需要登记,看看这是否符合你自己的野心。就像所有这些问题一样。

Getting married is a huge decision. Aside from the common wedding planning blunders, you’ll need to think about the more important aspects of your future together. You’ll want to arm yourself with all the knowledge you can find prior to making the choice, so here are a few things to ask before the big day.
 
1. If we both became jobless, what financial resources would we have?
This question is great, because it shines some light on your partner’s financial attitudes. Jumping into the question on a worse-case-scenario basis immediately emphasizes the importance of financial competency.
 
Although it’s scary to imagine a world without any income, it’s good to know what sort of plan might be plausible, given your current financial attitudes.
 
2. If I became a full-time professional, could you manage being a full-time parent?
If this is already your situation, reverse the roles. It’s good to know what your partner’s current views are on the possibility of a role reversal. This can give you insights into your partner’s attitudes about child rearing and professional goals.
 
There is no right answer to this question, but its important for both parties to know where the other stands.
 
3. When was the last time you visited a hospital? Why were you there?
Checking in with the last hospital visit can start a conversation about medical history. It can also provide some insight on the frequency and necessity of visits to the doctor. Rather than ask for all the relevant medical facts, reflecting on recent visits allows for a more natural conversation to occur.
 
4. When you reach your current goals, can you see yourself developing new dreams?
Being in love with someone who is passionate is great. Setting goals, pursuing dreams and creating new dreams are incredibly important in a successful life. Although nobody can anticipate the details of such a situation, it is important to check in and see if the spark of alternative dreams is still around.
 
5. What is the craziest sex experience you can imagine yourself participating in?
This question presses the boundaries of your partner’s sexual imagination. It is useful to explore this territory in order to explore how comfortable the two of you are in discussing this very private topic.
 
If you can’t discuss sexual needs and desires with your lifelong partner, you are likely to struggle in the long run. Prior to marriage, its good to see how open the two of you are.
 
6. If you could only have one spiritual need met, what would it be?
It’s valuable to know what your partner’s spiritual needs are. Spirituality need not be satisfied in a church, either. Things as ordinary as playing video games can have spiritual meaning to people.
 
It’s not always easy to recognize what is more important to one’s spiritual side, so starting a conversation about it is critical prior to marriage.
 
7. Which of my friends deserves the most respect and why?
Friends are an important part of our lives. This question focuses on our partner’s attitude about our friends and whether any of those relationships can have a foundation of respect. Although we may not always get along with our partner’s friends, it is important to maintain a level of respect.
 
If your partner can’t list all of your friends, don’t let it disturb you too much. You are just checking in to see if the friends that your partner can recall are reasonably accepted by him or her.
 
8. Which of our parents do you think may cause relationship struggles for us in the future?
Parents have a special power over us. It can be complicated if one of the parents doesn’t like your partner. It can be managed, but it is important to be able to discuss it openly with each other.
 
There is nothing wrong with considering what challenges may lay ahead of you if your families do ultimately combine and clash. If possible, you may use this question to develop potential solutions to those future challenges as well.
 
9. What is the one thing you have to have in order to feel comfortable in daily life?
This question is designed to help your partner evaluate what things are most critical to their happiness. There are some things each one of us has to have in order to feel okay.
 
These are key items which a partner has to learn to respect and work with. If your partner really needs to spend an hour a day reading and that just infuriates you, then you need to clarify that this is something needed by your loved one. It’s important to identify those items in order to facilitate communication.
 
10. How easy is it for you to move?
Some people see moving as a horrible challenge. Others can see the spark of opportunity within the unknown. Although you may not have any moves in your foreseeable future, it’s good to check in and find out if moving, in the future, is a real possibility or not.
 
If it’s totally off the table, you will need to check in and see if this is compatible with your own ambitions. As with all of these questions, this is an important one in planning your future with your future spouse and going deeper than choosing a church and party hall.

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